Winter Shirts
the ones that froze on the line during Minnesota's blue Winters.
The ones that smelled of sweat and cigarettes
she washed by hand when electrical lines froze and snapped.
The grey and black with red piping,
light blue oxford cloth with extra starch,
Saturday night polyester,
white linen with button down collar,
quilted plaid flannel ones.
The same ones she laid over chair backs in front of the stove
to thaw, and ironed every Wednesday night since they married.
The shirts she hung carefully in his closet
according to color and sleeve length.
It was the shirts she watched him remove from the hangers
and throw on the floor that made her realize
her life had become a series of unappreciated repetitive tasks.
It was those shirts she took from his closet,
folded neatly in a pile behind the house,
set ablaze, and burned to a cinder.
As she watched twenty years of her life
rise in white clouds of smoke
against the icy Minnesota morning,
it occurred to her she had not felt that warm in years.
5 comments:
That poem gave me goose bumps.
My quiet time with my mother was when I got off the bus in high school and no one else was home yet...there were 6 of us in 7 1/2 years. She had her own ritual performance while she ironed my father's shirts for his job and we would have a very few private time to talk about ...well women's work. This theme has run through my own work for over 25 years... as my last exhibit was named "Whispers and Echoes of Women's Work". Imagine and Live in Peace, Mary Helen Fernandez Stewart
I decided to check your blog tonight, and I'm so glad I did. Every time I read that poem--or better yet--hear you read it aloud, I'm pulled right into it. I love it for its contrasts and emotion and understatement and...I could go on and on, but I'll just end by saying "Thank You."
Linda
Mary Helen, thank you so much for your comment. I certainly want to check out your blog / website. Women's work. Sometimes when I think about that it seems like a sacred ritual performed by women since the beginning of time. A common thread weaves us together.
Dear Sister, thanks for your comment. Remember washing clothes on the wringer washing machine outside the back door?
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